Yanda aker buda budurwa mace musamman ma adaren farko da muhimman abubuwa hudu da yakamata kowanne saurayi yasani.

Wandannan abubuwa ne daziyi wuya kasamu wanda zai fada maka ko yakoya ma yadda yakamata.

Saboda haka idan kai saurayine kaban duk nutswarka anan domin wannan topic ne dayakamata kasani musamman ma idan auren soyayya kake da niyyar yi anan gaba.

Idan kuma kai kariga kayi aure ma,ana abaya kataba bude dudurwa ayanzu kuma kana jima,i to inada wani bonus dazan baka dazai kara dadada maka yanayi dakai da masoyiyarka saboda haka kaima kabiyomu.

Amma da farko zansdo kufara sanin tasirin da jima,in farkon bude mace yake dashi arayuwar ta na mace.

Idan jima,in farko yaiwa mace tsananin ciwo to zaiyi wuya sauran jima,in arayuwar ta ma bazai yi mata tsanann ciwoba ayayin yi.

Idan kuma yayyi mata tsananin dadi tob hakama sauran jima,in zasuyi mata dadi da gamsarwa ta musamman.

Hakama idan jima,in farkon yatayar mata da hankali ya firgitata kon yarazana ta to abune da duk kusan sauran jima,in dazatayi arayuwarta zasuzo mata ne a tsorace wanda hakan zaisa bazata dinga jin dadinsuba.

Kuma wadannan dalilinne sukesawa wasu matan ke tsanar jima,i daga jima,in farko, yayin da wasu m,atan suke shiga maitarsa da tsananin kaunarsa daga jima,in farkon,

Duk macen da tafada makan tunaninta akan jima,i wala tace ta tsaneshi ko batajin dadinsa ko tace ta tsananin kaunarsa da bukatarsa, to kasdani jima,in farko ne yayi mata haka.

Sabo da haka yakamata kai matukar kiyayewa da kulawa a yayin bude budurcin mace! Domin awannan lokacin wata ragamace ta rayuwar jima,inka kuma babbar kiyayewa da kulawar dazaka iya bata da bakamarsu shine bin matakai biyar dinnan dazanu bayyana maka su.

1.      Kwantar da hankalinta.

Wala adaren farkonkune ko ba yakamata ka sani aduk sanda katashi bude mace ka tabbata kafara kwantar da hankalinta da cire mata duk wani tsoro da wata fargaba da take dasu akan jima,i tahanyar fahimtar da ita da kalamai masu dadi danuna cewa bazakai mata abun  tahanyar dazai mata dadi ko ciwo ba hakan zai taimaka wajen cire mata tsoro da fargabar da take dashi akan jima,in farko domin duk wasu budurwoyin yan,mata sxuna da wannan fargabar ta jima,in farko sannan kuma hakan zaisa ta sake jikin ta dakai sosai harhakan zaikawo saurin tasowar sha,awarta da jikewar gabanta.

2.      Wasanni!

Farawa da jawota jikinsa shafarta cikin natsuwa da kuma cire kayanta daya bayan daya cikin wasa da ja ajiki dawasa dawasa dawasa, inaso kasani babu abun dayafi wannan mahimmanci wajen jima,i har shi ainihin jima,i baikai romance mahimmanciba.

Sabida haka bata dukkan lokacinka basirarka da tinaninka wajen shafa da tsotsar dukkan sassan jikin ta tun da ga kai, gashi, kunne, wuya, baki, nonuwa, hannu, ciki, cibiya, mara, cinya, duwawu, kafa,tafin kafa , yatsun hannu, da yan yatsun kafar! Cikin salo da nutsuwa da jan lokaci inaso kamanta da kanada wani abu waishi azzakari ajikin ka kawai kamanna ta ajikinka kaita wasa da ita da hannayen ka bakinka da harshenka da yan yatsunka kadai alungu da sakon cikin sassan jikinta tsawon lokacin daba adadi karkai kokarin kai azzakarinkafarjinta ina kara fada maka harsai daya daga abu ukunnan ya faru.

·        Idan takawo tahanyar romancin din

·        Kon idan tai kukan dadi irin mai sautin shidewar nan ko tanai mi kazura azzakarin naka da kanta saboda sha,awar tata tashi harzuwa kololuwa.

·        Idan gabanta yajike shagaf da ruwan ni,ima! Gumi kuma yabaibaye ko ina ajikinta.

Idan daya daga cikin abubuwannan yafaru to alama ce na farjin ta yashirya tarbar azzakarin!

Amma kasani daya daga abubuwannan bazai faruba harsai kayi daya daga biyunnan wanda shine na uku alissafin mu.

3.      Fingering ko tsotsar farji.

Abu biyunnnan suna da tasiri sosai awajken mata da kawo jikewar gaban su ko kawowa batare da sa azzakari ba afarjimn ba.

Saboda haka ayayin wasanni kayi mata daya daga cikinsu ko duka biyun hakan zai taimaka sosai wajen samo kofar farjin dakara jin dadin yanayin agareku.

Amma idan zaka tsotsi farjin katabbata bakin ka atsarkake yake itama kuma farjin nata atsarkake yake.

Idan kuma fingering zakai katabbata yan yatsunka a tsaftace suke farcen yatsan ka kuma ayan ke suke sannan kayi amfani da man shafawa sosai ahannun dan yasa yan yatsun hannu sui klaushi da santsin dabazasu suke taba ko suimata zafiba.

4.      Samo kofar farjin!

Abune dazakai tunanin kamar mai sauki amma kuma bamai sauki bane musammanma idan baka saniba shiyasa kuma fingering ko tsotsar farjin suke da muhimmanci domin tan hanyarne zaklafi samu hanyar da idan kazo jima,in zaka bi da azzakarin ka.

Amma ko bakayi daya daga cikin suba yazama dole kayi amfani da hannayenk waje yaye labulayen kofar farjin, kakula da abu biyu yayin hakan…

·        Kofar fitsari da kofar farji daban suke kofar  fitsari karama ce sosai bama yadda za,ai azzakari ya shiga idan kai kokarin turashi ciki zaiyi musu tsananin ciwone kawai saboda haka kadakata kanemi kofar farjin dakwai.

Amma kuman kakiyaye da kofar duwawu saboda wasu mazan idan sun rasa kofar farjin sunkan shiga ta kofar duwawu atunaninsu itace kofar farjin.

Kofar farji tana yadda zaka jika daidai idan kashigeta daga kwance, idan kai amfani da yatsa daya wajen lalubota zaifima sauki daganan kuma saikai amfani da yan yatsu biyu wajen kara buda ta, duk dai dan ganin kakarawa azzakarin sauki idan yazo shiga!

Bayan gama wasanni dagano kofar farjin saikuma fara ainihin abuna karshe wato jima,i kuma na tabbata indai harkayi abun damuka fada abaya bto itama tashirya shiga da fitar azzakarin.

Du dahaka bayan jikewar azzakarin nata yakamata kashafa mayuka masu laushin da wanda hakan zaisa shiga da fitar yayi sauki batare da taji tsananin zafiba saboda matsewar farjin nata kasancewar ba,a taba shigarsaba.

Idan da bukata kanayi kana kara shafa mandan kakara sauka ka muku sannan kanayi ahankali karkace sai ka zurta gabadaya ko kayi dasauri da sauri lokaci guda dan zaiyi mata zafi koyaya idan kasamub yashiga to kalallaba ahakan.

Sannan kuma idantace yanayi mata tsananin zafi to kasani badaidai kakeba.

 

Domin jima,i baikasance maitsananin ciwoba wala afarko ko akarshe sabo da hakla kadata kayi wasanni da ita sosai kafun kacigaba.

Kuma kakara shafa mai sosai a azzakarinnaka sannankuma kayi ahankali.

 

Wannan shine yadda ake bude sabuwar budurwa…